>Week Update

>I haven’t posted much this week. I was trying to think of a way to say what I need to say.

As my loyal blog readers know, I have been dating a really amazing person named Bob. He gets mentioned from time to time because he is part of my life, but I try to limit your interaction with people who may not want to be the subject of my blog. This is, afterall, http://www.courtneyschoenfeld.com/ and not whoiscourtneydating now.com. (That could be a fabulous idea for another site, but it seems like a little more of me than I’m willing to give.)

Bob has been dissatisfied with Florida for some time and over the past month he has made the decision to leave. He says the decision has very little to do with me and that he wants to be closer to his non-Courtney friends and family. I understand that because my family is here. I cannot move away and I adore Florida. I don’t want to move. Unfortunately, that means that our only course of action is to see other people. It is not what I wanted, but I knew he had been on the fence about staying for at least a year. It was not really a shock, especially since I knew he had been pulling away from me since he returned from his cruise.

Please Note: I am not at home wailing on the floor, eating Bon Bons, and cursing his name. He’s not a jerk. He’s just honest with himself about his needs and I respect that.

Also, Bob would prefer we not use the term “dumped.” He says that garbage gets dumped and that I am not garbage. He’s asked to be my agent for the career in comedy that only he thinks is possible. I said that was acceptable. You should only allow people who truly believe in you to represent you.

About Courtney

32 and divorced. I have three children and I'm working my way through everything.

Posted on November 13, 2009, in Bob, Dating. Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.

  1. >Sorry to hear about the only man that has been able to keep you happy. I know he will be lissed by you and will be hard to replace. I just hope the kids didn't become too attatached.I would love the opportunity to spend time with you. I also would like to get you another goodie box like last year. I need you number and/or address.I enjoy your writings..James

  2. >That's where it always starts, with the "writings."Good luck with all of this.

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